Friday Faves

This whole week has felt like Friday and now it’s really here! I thought I’d pop in with a few faves from lately.

1. August goals! I love a new month and the chance to set some new goals while reevaluating continuing other ones. July was a great month for reading books (I read 3! My goal is 2 a month in this season of life). We also had a blast celebrating Asher’s birthday and going on lots of walks. I set a goal to workout 15+ times and surpassed it. We also did a handful of fun things like celebrating national ice cream day, berry picking, swimming, and out with friends. August has some practical goals like getting rid of weeds and wallpaper mixed in with more fun ones like re-celebrating Father’s Day (Ryan was sick on Father’s Day so we are doing a redo) and doing some intentional vision exploring.

2. We worked hard to finish Asher’s birthday present! What started as a sandbox turned into a full fledged “playground” with a swing and slide. The kids are loving it!

3. Baby #4! We got to see baby again on an ultrasound for a growth check and are so thankful that all looks well. This baby has kept us on our knees and I’m so thankful for every day. Though, I still need name ideas!!

4. Personality differences. I recently read Anne Bogel’s Reading People and love learning more about personality frameworks. I love seeing all the ways God makes us unique. Plus, I love seeing how differences help us grow. Melea has been big into paint lately and so Asher has explored more in that area too even though he tends to steer toward other activities.

5. Praying together and taking steps toward future vision. I’m so thankful for my husband (even though he’s not perfect!) and for how he wants to make prayer together a priority. I’m thankful that even though it’d be easy to stay “comfortable” that he wants us both to keep seeking God’s vision for us and to keep growing together. I’m trusting and excited to see what God will do.

Back to enjoying this Friday! Hope yours is great! Any faves?


Weekend Faves

Stopping by to check in with some favorites on this hot day! Summer seems extra hot this year. I love getting outside but I do love some shorts and long sleeve type weather. My parents are moving so we had pizza with them last night and today has been full of projects. We went to prayer this morning (always a good choice) and the word that came up for a few people at the end was clarity. My heart leapt at hearing it said and agreed that I want clarity from the Lord. Clear vision, easy to see or hear, quality of being clear, sharp, crispness. So much packed into a little word.

Anyway, onto some favorites/things that made me smile lately.

1. Rearranging the upstairs bedrooms! Asher (unprompted from us) moved himself down to the bedroom in the basement. The room mostly has been used as storage/guest room. The bed is a full so there’s not much room for other things but he’s added a few. I thought for sure he’d move back up but he’s still basement strong after a few weeks. Melea also started climbing out of her bed so we bit the bullet and transitioned her to Asher’s floor bed. She’s doing great! All this moving rooms caused a bit of disorganization so I spent Friday rearranging and moving things around the rooms. I love the feeling of an accomplished project!

2. Piggy backing on the rearranging, I found my absolute favorite duvet cover for a twin and promptly put it on Melea’s bed. She exclaimed, “Wow!” and jumped into bed. I love her little personality!

This last picture is now a spot for toys. We will see what happens when baby comes about where we want everyone (baby will likely sleep in with us quite a while–close and convenient has always been great).

3. Making popsicles! I love summertime treats and homemade is the best. We made some with mango, banana, and strawberries that were delicious! We had too much for the popsicle molds so we ate smoothies with leftover straws from Asher’s birthday.

4. Wallpaper that tears off easily! I’ve been slowly….slowly….slowly working on the wallpaper in our bedroom and when I hit a wall today, I tried the border and it popped right off! So thankful! Back to the tedious, faith building removal down below. Someday (soon I hope!) all the wallpaper will be gone in this house! Maybe then we will paint.

5. Quality time. We have been staying up way too late recently but I am loving all the quality time we’ve gotten to talk at night and on walks recently. While I wish more clarity (there’s that word again) sometimes would come from talking, I am grateful for the process and am praying for clarity.

Okay. Off to check on Asher’s “surprise” and see how it’s coming along. Last I heard the ladder was next! Any faves to share??

Friday Faves

Stopping by to check in before the weekend. We’ve been keeping cool and enjoying summer while we can. We’ve made a few walks to the park and snuck in lots of playing outside this last week or two. Our plans for the weekend include working on a fun project for Asher’s birthday, maybe strawberry picking, church, maybe ice cream, and lots of quality time. I’m a little sad to be saying good-bye to June but ready or not July is coming! Below are a few faves from lately!

1. We got the octopus out for the kids to run around in! Asher told me it was his favorite part of the day.

2. Meeting our grocery budget goal this month! I’ve been trying to find a balance of meal planning and staying in budget. When I meal plan, I love to try new recipes but do not always have a great estimation of how much each new recipe will cost. This month was a win because we tried new recipes and stayed in budget!

3. Building lots of train tracks. When Melea naps, Asher loves to have me help him build train tracks. I love the mental challenge of trying to come up with new shapes and he loves helping. We’ve moved onto adding a roundhouse for the trains to sleep in and a repair center. Previously, he wanted to use all the tracks and have them all connect. His imagination is so fun to see develop!

4. Sharing about our trip to South Africa! Ryan’s work invited us to do a “lunch and learn” about our trip with Ignite South Africa. I loved getting the chance to talk about a place I love and share about the awesome work being done there. Plus, it’s just fun to do something like that with my husband!

5. Seeing progress! I’ve been slowly and steadily working on removing all the wallpaper in our house. I keep praying that all this work will pay off in the end when we sell someday! I still have a ways to go but I am making progress. I’ve done one of the upstairs bedrooms, all of the kitchen, and am really close to finishing our bedroom. The bedroom in the basement also has some.

Well, I could keep going but Melea is waking up and Asher is ready to go swimming soon! Hope your weekend is full of sunshine, rest, and fun!

Generous Assumptions

I recently read in a couple different places (Lisa Max and then there was another one in I think a devotional from the Bible app–I can’t remember but it was about marriage!) about the assumptions and stories in our heads we make about situations.

The general idea is that if you don’t know the full story and aren’t able to check it out then you can come up with a generous assumption that will help keep your heart soft and loving.

For example, instead of being crabby at the person in traffic you could come up with other potential ideas as to why they are acting the way they are–maybe they lost a family member and are distracted, maybe they’re on the way to the doctor, maybe they lost their job, etc.

Most people are doing the best they can with the tools they have! Not everyone has great tools and we all have areas to grow.

I know there are many times I hope that others will give me a generous assumption rather than judging me especially in parenting! I want to be able to do the same for others.

Here’s to doing the best we can and leaning in to keep learning and growing!


My husband and I find ourselves talking about vision, goals, and the future many times. Let’s be honest…I’m a girl who loves a plan and will work that plan to get things done. So, I’m usually the one asking and wondering what’s next and where we are going.

Being an achiever is one of my top strengths from Strengths Finder! This strength helps me get stuff done and well…achieve a lot! Every day is an opportunity to achieve something. I constantly want to keep growing and changing. I love looking forward to new adventures. Though, I can also be one to jump in without as much intentional seeking of God’s input as can be helpful. Not to say that I don’t seek God. I do! But oftentimes I want to seek Him in the more like “let’s see what doors close” rather than let’s pray to hear about what door to try first.

My husband is more detailed and methodical. He still loves adventure and travel thankfully but approaches things differently. I am thankful for the insight and view he brings to our relationship! Even when I don’t understand or struggle, I’m glad for the ways God uses both our strengths.

Toward the beginning of the month, my husband suggested that we pick a time to intentionally pray each night about a specific area that we’ve been talking about. This was his response to my wanting a tangible next step to explore some options.

My first thought definitely was along the lines of that’s not very tangible or well sounds more like a I’m getting a “no” but I will tell you I will pray about it.

Over the last few weeks, I’ve warmed up to his wisdom in suggesting this as a next step. We have grown closer as we do this together rather than praying on our own. I have been privileged to see further into his heart and where he is at with things. I can see that his request was not a “no” but a genuine desire to hear from God first.

This intentional practice has also tied right into what God has been impressing on my heart over the last few years. When I think about who I want to be remembered as, one of my biggest heart’s desires is for others to know that I really pray for them and am one who prays. Not just the “I’ll pray for you” and then say one little prayer (which is okay sometimes!) but the I’m going to battle with you and earnestly praying and seeking God on your behalf.

There’s the sweetest lady at church (even though she is unable to come to services now I think and pray for her often) and she may not be known to everyone and I don’t even know her full story but I know she prays faithfully. She has been such an inspiration to pray and keep praying.

I don’t feel like many people leave comments on blog posts anymore but if you have something on your heart I’d love to hear it and pray for you.

Seek to Understand

I read a part of John Maxwell’s books today on Relationships and the part that stuck out reminded leaders to seek to understand. The book talked about how often we want to talk about our own opinions first. Maybe we want to be heard first. Maybe we want to persuade first. Yet, Maxwell suggested that if instead you seek to understand the other person first then you’re more likely to have a productive conversation.

For myself, when someone only wants to share their opinions and does not ask questions back, I’m less likely to want to continue to engage in conversation with them. I want a mutual exchange where we can both be heard and understood. I don’t always do the best at this and I’m working on it. Plus, seeking to understand in a kind way too.

With my kids, I have work to do in this area! They often have ideas, opinions, and perspectives so different than I do. Partly because their brains are still developing and partly because they’re different people with different personalities. When I can slow down to seek to understand a situation before giving a direction, we can work together to find the best solution. Sometimes my perspective helps them see the chain of events that will come from their choices. Other times they open my eyes to a new view. Sometimes we meet in the middle.

With God too, I’ve found how valuable this tool is within our relationship. I can question and get angry about scenarios and I can seek God to ask for His perspective. My own perspective usually lacks the understanding that He has. I want to see things as He sees and do as He does. The more I can understand who God is and His truth about me the more I can live that out. I want to understand and respond to His will, His ways, and His timing.

Always Enough, Never Too Much

When looking for a books, I usually steer away from daily devotions since I have a harder time doing one a day and sticking with it. I would rather read continuously. I made an exception for Jess Connolly and Hayley Morgan’s latest devotional titled Always Enough, Never Too Much.

The title and description of the devotional drew me in fast! I’ve felt both ways before and have struggled with being who God created me to be without shame.

The short devotions are easy to read personal stories and have a scripture at top. The book is also easy to flip through to find a title that sounds interesting if you would rather read that way than go in order. This is how I’ve enjoyed the book. Flipping to what sounds relevant for the day.

Also, I love the creative way the book is setup. “Always Enough” devotions are on one side and then it flips over and the “Never Too Much” ones go the other way. Kind of like two books in one!

I would suggest this book for women who are looking for encouragement to be who God created them to be and who like devotional formats (or are okay with short stories).

Disclosure: I received this book from Booklook for free–thank you! All opinions are my own though.