Hello 2017

Hello 2017. Purpose. 

Once again…I didn’t think I necessarily wanted to do a word but then the word found me and so here it is. I wanted to go back to my celebrate year but I’m hopeful for all that God will do this year. I keep saying I want some vision and I feel like focusing on “purpose” will bring some clarity in those areas. So here we go. 

Hello 2016. Stand. 

I wasn’t going to choose a word for this year but then I heard a song and decided to accept “Stand” as my word. I needed a reminder to keep standing firm. To be resolute and unmovable. I wanted to keep going back to what God has said–not just what I want Him to do. The year started out on a bit of a tough note with getting over jet lag and with being back from Africa. Plus, being stuck inside for winter is usually a bit rough. I started the year off by speaking at Spa Night and stepped out of my comfort zone. Spring brought a trip to Milwaukee with my family and another trip to Portland to celebrate Ryan’s birthday. We also were thrilled to find out we were pregnant with our third little baby. We got to see our little one right away at 6 weeks!  This also turned into lots of blood draws and checking. Lots of prayer and hope. We headed to Glacier and Banff in June with friends. This was a blast!  Asher competed in his first Harvest Duathlon and was pretty cute!  We started going to Story time at the library more consistently and we even did a music class. Oh and we have been trying MOPS out too. We ended the year off with a bang by welcoming our daughter. She came on December 1st and I was so happy that we get to share a birthday month. We jumped into the newborn stage and goodness this mom gig is pretty amazing and hard and all sorts of adjectives. I am so thankful for all three of my babies. We ended the year standing on prayer for some family stuff and I am so glad that I have His word to stand on no matter the season. 

Hello 2015. Walk. 

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2015. What a year. We celebrated Asher’s first birthday!  We went on lots of walks. We kept being faithful at work and church. We found out we were pregnant with our second baby!  And we were really sad to say goodbye to him (Enoch) too. God was gracious and kind as we grieved and waited.  We went to Africa and I got to show my boys all the fun things. I love Africa and definitely still dream of moving there someday if God would have us go there. For now, seems like we are sticking put and being faithful to where He last called us. 

Let’s walk it out, baby.  This year isn’t about going fast or glorifying being busy.  Let’s walk into His presence and hang out.  Let’s walk slow and talk slower.  Let’s open our ears to listen well and listen often.  Let’s find, keep, invite, seek, and walk with others.  You need people.  Walk with them well.  Walk confidently and boldly.  You get to be you.  Don’t let fear or anxiety take that away.  Sometimes you might need to walk a different path and that is okay.  Sometimes you need to walk away or walk toward a situation you don’t want.  You’ll get there.  Thankfully, God walks before, beside, and behind you.  He’s got you covered.  There’s a lot to come this year.  So walk it out.

Hello 2014. Open. 

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2014. Yikes. You’re a year to go down in the books! I feel like each year just keeps getting better.  I started this year knowing there was just so much that I didn’t know was coming or how things would go.  We didn’t move. We didn’t change jobs.  We just plain stayed put.  And had a baby. 🙂 On his due date to boot.  I sure did not think he would come on July 4th, but it was just right.  From labor to delivery to learning to be “the mommy,” I held my hands wide open and my heart even wider.  We leaned into this crazy new normal and still haven’t come out of the fog.  There’s so much love packed into a 20 inch little boy who grew like crazy.  I missed having a marathon to run this year, but I did love getting out with the BOB stroller with my little man.  We jumped into all sorts of healing and intentional-ness.  All this goodness both before and after the little guy came.  We invested in it even when it wasn’t convenient.  I had to open my fists and let go of some goals to make way for some of what was needed.  There’s a sweetness that I’m missing as I walk into this next year.  There was such an innocence of not knowing what having a baby was like and now we are into something new.  There’s much that I didn’t dive into this year and thankfully there’s more time.  More time for vulnerability, community building, learning, space, detachment, and all of those other good things that I’m still stepping my toe into just barely.  So, farewell, 2014.  You’ll forever be the year that gave us our first baby and made me the mommy.

Hello 2013. Be Free: Spread Your Wings and Fly.  

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2013. You have been one of my favorites.  Being married is amazing, messy, hard, wonderful, and just plain fun.  I sure did not know how hard this little word (free) would be until I jumped right into this year.  I’ve been challenged to speak my opinion and to share my feelings without shame.  All the while learning how to hear from others with grace.  Being free often means making a lot of choices that just are not fun.  Choosing to go when you want to be selfish.  Choosing to forgive when you’ve been wronged.  Choosing to love when you would rather leave.  Not to mention letting others process at their own speed.  Not jumping in to solve or fix.  This has been a good year.  Full of adventure.  We set off on a crazy Michigan adventure to see Africa friends.  We road tripped to D.C. and Virginia for one of my last classes.  I finished my Master’s degree!  We made some scary, but exciting decisions that changed everything.  I wrestled with God and deepened my trust.  We trained for the marathon that wasn’t.  Hello a blizzard in South Dakota.  But let’s be honest.  Some of our favorite conversations were on runs turned walks.  So the Lord knew just what we needed.  We loved well and often.  We stumbled our way through our first year of marriage with a whole lot of grace.  Not to mention quite a few apologies.  The Lord is good and He knew I needed to learn a bit about being free in Him.

Hello 2012. Time to Celebrate. 


Ah! What a year! I had NO idea what I was getting into when I picked my one word for the year.  I was hopeful in a very tentative way.  I remember wanting to kick up my heels and learn to enjoy life in whatever season I found myself.  I wanted to learn to celebrate God and celebrate where God had me as well as who God made me.  Plus, I wanted to learn to celebrate with others.  I didn’t want to be bitter or angry when God seemed to shower others with blessing instead of me….I wanted instead to learn to celebrate with them no matter what and to learn to see all that I could celebrate in my own life even when it didn’t seem like there was much to celebrate.  Now, I certainly didn’t always do this well and I haven’t always been the best at being content or happy regardless of the circumstances.  But all at once, God certainly gave me a TON to celebrate this year.

Bonus things to celebrate: dating, getting engaged, getting MARRIED, a new job as a counselor, starbucks coming to town, tons of fun moments with church kiddos, vbs, kids camp, new babies, pregnant friends, iMessage, packages, visiting friends, making awesome greece friends, loving big, sledding and snow angels, making sweet wedding things, delicious wedding cake, mountains, oceans, zip lining, rappelling, snorkeling in a cave, exploring, a big wedding shower, being celebrated by others, and celebrating with others. Just a few….there are SO many more that fill up the year.  I am ever so thankful to God and am expectant for what this next year will hold!

Hello 2011. Trust.

2011. I feel like I’m still catching my breath from you and yet you’re on the way out.  You’ve taught me how to wrestle and how to even begin having “get real with God” conversations.  Who knew so many feelings lay dormant under the surface? I waded through the past ever so tentatively and cautiously to catch a new perspective.  I saw the areas where I trusted too much and areas where I trusted too little.  The dance of trust clumsily moved with the music as I asked God to teach me how to be wise as a serpent and innocent as a dove.  My feet hit the dirt roads in a lesson of seasons and the up’s and down’s of life all the way through 26.2 miles.  Keep moving forward.  You’ll get there.  God will draw you toward your destiny and He knows just how to slam doors and plop things in your lap.  Be honored that He’s trusting you with living out this story and He knows you’re going to make it through singing His praises.  Wilderness, deserts, the back side of the mountain…they’re all part of the Job, Joseph, David, Ruth, John, Jesus type stories.You’re in good company.  Trust Him.

Hello 2010. Welcome to a Journey with Joy.

2010. You were nothing I expected. I fell in love with my church from the moment I stepped into the doors the very first Sunday.  They’ve weathered the storms of life with me and let the light shine through the rain.  VBS made me smile with brick making. Kids Camp taught me how beautiful bed time can be. Sundays filled with hugs.  Subbing and working at the schools stretched my planning type personality.  I learned to be so flexible, adapt to the constant changes, and the importance of remembering a name.  My heart beat is for those little moments of noticing.  A triathlon taught me I’m stronger than I know.  Sprinting through the Bible in 90 days gave me more questions than I would have ever guessed. I lived in the questions even when I didn’t want to live them.  I stood up for myself and I fell forward.  I felt the shock waves of slamming doors and a big not yet to Africa.  Mixed with all the tears, joy seems an ill-fitting word for this year, but oh I see it hiding out throughout everything.  I see now that joy can be weaved right into the very fabric of my tear-stained heart if I let the word rest on God alone.

Hello 2009. Let’s go on an adventure.

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2009. Adventure you were!  In so many ways I would not have expected.  You were filled with Africa. You changed me so much. God changed my heart this year. Moving me out of my comfort zone. I rappelled 8 stories, became a vegetarian, moved to South Africa, got baptized, climbed mountains, ran into snakes, found out I was in a hole, and loved deeply.  Your sunsets, sunrises, stars, zebra, mountains, and mostly the people caught my heart. I learned so much.  I learned to fall in love with God even more, to fall forward, to teach, to LOVE kiddos more than I ever thought possible, to leave my heart, and to see God in new ways.  I discovered new passions for SA, kids, and for empowering for change!  I made memories I carry in my heart.  My world got turned upside down, but I still said a BIG yes to God.

Hello, 2008. Let’s be friends.

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2008. You were quite a year!  A year full of steps.  Stepping out into a full-time new job, learning to cook and bake so many new things, taking a ceramics class, going to concerts, enrolling in a quarter of seminary, state parks, and making my own way instead of following others.  Watching my church go from community groups to Sunday services while being able to be on the core team was a beautiful thing.  Remembering that I was going to be okay and that everything would be okay.  I journeyed through letting go, grieving, wanting more, and chasing after God.  My heart opened to a different plan.  I took steps to change things and said a BIG yes to God even though it meant leaving all that I knew to head to Africa.  An Africa that I hadn’t fallen in love with yet.

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  7. if you do come to south africa again, let me know… it would be great to meet you, someone who has a passion for my home and a heart submerged in Jesus.

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