I remember as a little girl going the whole nine yards with the “best friend” frenzy. From necklaces, to bracelets to matching things, we flaunted the “best friend” status. Unfortunately, in those years sometimes people get left out and hurt by the whole “best friend” mania. Plus, the manufacturing companies never made life easy by only allowing a girl one best friend. Although, if we want to go technical, there should only be one “best”, right? Maybe we just need different types of “best” because that’s what the distinction comes down to sometimes. A best friend to talk with, a best friend to do sports with, a best friend to go dancing with, ect.
Last night, I really needed one of my “best friends.” I tried some of the other “bests” and they filled their spots wonderfully, but not quite what I wanted/needed. I needed that person to talk some sense into my negative, messed up head and to speak light and truth into the darkness with all encompassing love. I fell asleep with tear stained cheeks feeling a bit defeated. Yet come morning, my “best friend” spoke the healing words I needed. I am so thankful to have such amazing people in life. I am so glad that I have all sorts of “bests” to walk with me through the different struggles and triumphs. I am so thankful to have enough relationships that go beyond the proximity and affinity type (those are important too, but in a different way!). So, here’s to all the “bests” in life who let us lay it all down, drop anything to get there for us, and help us rise into the light at the end of the fight 🙂
Just lay it all down, put your face into my neck and let it fall out
I know, I know, I know, I knew before you got home
This world you’re in now, it doesn’t have to be alone
I’ll get there somehow
Cause I know, I know, I know
When even springtime feels cold
But I will learn to breathe this ugliness you see
So we can both be there and we can both share the dark
And in our honesty, together we will rise out of our nightminds
And into the light at the end of the fight…
You were blessed by a different kind of inner view: it’s all magnified
The highs will make you fly but the lows make you want to die
And I was once there, hanging from that very ledge where you are standing
So I know I know I know, it’s easier to let go
But I will learn to breathe this ugliness you see,
So we can both be there and we can both share the dark
And in our honesty, together we will rise out of our nightminds
And into the light at the end of the fight…
…and in our honesty, together we will rise out of our nightminds
and into the light…at the end of the fight
“Nightminds” by Missy Higgins