Naughty Neighbor

“It isn’t so much that you’re different.  You’re still the same person.  It’s just that you’re more of some things and less of others.  You’re making choices about your personality. ” p. 159 Naughty Neighbor by Janet Evanovich

Am I consciously making decisions and choices that positively affect my character?  Or am I letting chances pass by?  

p.s. Yes, I’m a Janet Evanovich reader–her books are so funny!  Although, I wasn’t too impressed with Fearless Fourteen… 😦