Oh, personality types! I love taking these little tests. In the past, I’ve usually come up as either INFJ or INTJ. Facebook apparently thinks I’m INFJ. 66% I, 44% N, 22% F, and 33% J. Here’s some interesting comments they made about INFJs 🙂 Enjoy!
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For INFJs, ‘still waters run deep.’ They tend to become attracted to someone special and prefer this one deep relationship over many superficial ones.(Yeah..pretty much or at least the past shows that) The depth of involvement and feeling that the INFJ has toward loved ones is only partially communicated outward. At times, when alone, INFJs become truly in touch with the depth of the love they have for their partner. They may not openly demonstrate or even verbalize their intense feelings. INFJs often have an ideal standard of what love is. They hold to their ideal and are disappointed when, inevitably, their relationship and/or mate reveals flaws. INFJs enjoy sharing activities like a regular ‘date,’ revisiting the place where they first met their mates, or doing other symbolic things that help to continue and confirm the existence of the bond that they feel for their partner.
INFJs want to give love and to be loved. They enter into relationships just to be cared for, even when the person is not right for them and they suspect it. However, when they meet that special person, they are quick to get into the relationship and make it a serious one. They will end their other relationships in order to pursue their loved one. They become very focused, intense, and direct in that pursuit.
INFJs, when scorned, take it personally and retreat inward. They may obsess about the relationship and their role in its failure.–Big time! One INFJ explained, ‘people can do the most outrageous things, yet I blame myself for triggering their behaviour or not recognizing it. I see myself as responsible for relationships. Other people can dismiss them — I’m not able to.’ INFJs may blame themselves and experience a period of mourning.–Unfortunately, I do this too… If they do not marshall their resources, externalized their feelings, and take risks to move on, they may experience a long periods of self-examination.–I’m in one of these now, who knew?
INFJs have a strong love of learning, and they tend to do well academically. Through persistence, diligence, and conscientiousness, they complete their assignments on time. They are likely to enjoy research and will go great lengths to find answers.
INFJs enjoy investigating the possibilities and meanings beyond the actual facts and realities. Reading holds a particular fascination for them because it allows them to have quiet reflection time and engages their imagination.–Yep, I’m in love with reading. They also like the written word (and rely on it more than the spoken word) since it is usually better structured and more coherent with a ready-made framework.–I like this idea.
INFJs write and communicate well because they want to formulate their ideas clearly. They place high regard on their reader and audience.–Alright, all of you who read this blog should appreciate that I do that! jk They seek to communicate their ideals to others. When their ideals need to be championed, they speak up in an enthusiastic and impassioned way.
As idealists who have strong value systems, INFJs seek authenticity and depth in their close relationships, and especially value people who can see and appreciate the INFJ for who they are and what they stand for. INFJs are likely to have friends of long standing.
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So there you go. If you want a fuller description, I direct you now to Facebook and all of its scientifically accurate applications 🙂
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